My friend Eartha (Hui-lan Hsu) just left my office. She's flying back to Taiwan Monday. I can't believe she's actually going so far away. She and I have been friends pretty much since her first semester here a year ago. After graduation, she traveled with another friend for a while and just got back yesterday. She came up here to see me before she left campus for good. We had been talking all semester about getting together for dinner so she could cook me some real Taiwanese food, but we never seemed to have coinciding schedules. So she brought me some sweet and sour pork and chicken. She also brought some more green teas made with flowers, leaves and berries to try like the jasmine tea she had given me during the semester. She finally got to see my snail who woke up just long enough to wave at her. This was the first time she had ever seen my office, so I showed her everything although it's not a lot. I wish I had more souvenirs to give her. I gave her a lot of coins (Susan B. Anthony dollars, Wheat pennies, one of each Canadian quarters, Bicentennial quarters, etc.) for graduation in a red envelope, but it just doesn't feel like I've given her enough. She has taught me a lot about Taiwan, Mandarin, and her customs and traditions, and I feel like I could have done more for her while she was here. I don't know. I do know that I'm going to miss her a lot. I'm going to miss her stories, her laughter, and her smile. I really hope that things go well for her in Taiwan and that she gets to teach English to children like she plans. The next time it snows (which, I know, will be a while) I'm going to take pictures of all of it to send to her. Maybe one day I'll even get to visit Taiwan. At least I know I'll have a place to stay. Goodbye, Hui-lan. I'll miss you.
That is sad…:
And very far away. But I'm glad you made an awesome friend like her.